Published By K Ashaunti
We women all been there before or at least heard about it with our girlfriends. I personally been there countless times. Cheating can be deeply detrimental and damaging to a relationship. The bare absence of TRUST becomes present. Then we began to question one of the core elements of a successful relationship LOYALTY. We question emotionally if there is any left or did it ever even existed. We emotional creatures come to then ask ourselves WHYYYYYY. We sometimes unintentionally ignore the WARNING SIGNS associated in their behaviors because we be so in LOVE or with just the IDEA of IT . You know the signs like he acts out of character (there’s a stranger in my house), he desperately wants his privacy (takes his phone in the shower), and he suddenly cares more about his looks (I’m not use to this). You get the PICTURE but it's equally important to recognize the ILLUSTRATION - the underlying reasons why men are unfaithful in the first place. K did her research so let’s reveal the PUNCH. Ladies get your STRAWS it may be a little BITTER though. EVERYTHING IN LIFE DOES NOT HAVE SUGAR
With the unpredictability of a man research has shown that in any relationship, there's up to a one in four chance the cheating may take place. So with that said scientifically, there is a 25% percent chance your boo may not stay true. Theoretically, Heck With my dating history I believe it’s a 50% chance. Let’s shed some LIGHT on this topic.
1.HE IS IMMATURE
One of the main reasons why men cheat is simply a matter of his JUVENILE nature. He thinks from a BASIC standpoint on all levels internally (Even spiritually). This unappealing feature impacts a relationship in numerous ways. For instance, men who are immature often put themselves first in most situations. In his premature mind he comes first. He may externally display no consideration for the feelings of his partner. He refuses to take any responsibility just like a minor. These type of men give into their basic temptations without a care about any consequences or repercussions. He just may kick it with Jenny on the block or Have a one night stand with Jane Do on account of his careless mental processes. He simply doesn’t care about the repercussions and don't take into consideration their partner's feelings. That’s the last thing on his mind.
Most immature men show a lack of sophistication. Healthy relationships require emotionally mature minds. Both men and women have to have a mutual respect for one another and be able to compromise. They have to stop visioning one another as “I” and starting thinking in terms as WE. Of course you have to be willing to build to that level and it’s going to take some inner work. Let’s move on to the next.
2. HIS EMOTIONAL NEEDS ARE NOT MET
Although we are emotional creatures Women are not the only ones who posess emotions. We sometimes forget with the demands of society on MEN MASCULINITY. Men have to be Strong, Tough, and Agressive blah blah. Men have emotional needs and desires too. In fact, it's been shown that nearly 50 percent of men who cheat do so because they feel unhappy, unemotionally fulfilled and so forth. Men chose to cheat to chase feeling valued and emotionally supported if they don’t get that sense from their partners. Therefore they seek to get what they may be lacking from someone else. Sometimes they find and at times they don’t but overall their are consequences at hand. One of the core principles of relationships in any successful relationship is in COMMUNICATION. I encourage men and women in relationships to communicate have a better understanding on such issues. Avoid Variety And Get Clarity.
3. HIS PHYSICAL NEEDS ARE NOT BEING MET
Let’s face it some of us women get tired of sharing our PRECIOUS COOKIES. We often times are so oblivious to men due to our modern day busy lifestyles and a man sexual needs become at the bottom of the list. With the absence of sexual fulfillment, men may tend to point eyes at another direction and the spirit of INFIDELITY just may take lead. Specifically, a study in the International Journal of Sexual Health revealed that one of the major motivators in a man's decision to start an affair was his desire for sexual satisfaction. We all know the treatment for this just may be the in SACRED BOX. We do hold the power. However that treasure is only for men with HUSBAND POTENTIAL (another topic for another day) Just be aware of one of the signs may include his sexual interest with you.
4.HE ‘S INSECURE
He just may have a problem with being insecure. He show feelings of being unworthy constantly worried of his partners interest needing some form of a reassurance. Men just may want to be told that they are handsome and get some uplifting compliments. Some insecure men are needy and they seek out validation to the max literally. They have to constantly prove to their self one way or another that they are a significant factor. He may seek out his domestic life and find it at the club, the beach, Instagram, Facebook every realm of social media. The fact is insecurity plays an important role on the level of a man mentality. That is something women really have no control over but just give our men some form of encouragement from time to time.
Now these are just a few of the many reasons why men cheat. Please believe there are tonssss more that your girl K. will discuss. I chose to keep this one short and sweet and not give you muzers a 200 page novel. (Although I do have a book coming in the works discussing my experience with infidelity so please stay tuned.) Relationship topics is one of my favs to blog about and you know I keep it real on MUZE MEDIA CREW. If you haven’t subscribed to MMCREW network do it NOW to get more HI DEF TOPICS.